life in it's essence

 

Many times I wonder why things happen the way they do, some say its coincidence, others say its fate. Fate they say has been predestined and cannot be altered, although quite a number of people disagree with this phenomenon, certain people believe that you are in control of your life and anything that happens to you happens because of a decision you made and only because you permitted it, simply quoted “you are the architect of your own life”. This set of people don’t believe in coincidence and would usually go an extra mile to prove it. But does it really matter if life has been predestined or not……..

Truth be told life sometimes throws certain curves at us come to think of it, its all natural for life to throw curves at us because life itself isn’t a straight one you know, *p.s; the earth is spherical in shape* and so we should therefore expect those curves at times but this challenges are certainly what builds us as a person, it shapes, moulds, and sometimes rebuilds us, it makes us stronger and makes life fun. Basically this things add up to become our success stories.

But even in all this we shouldn’t forget to have fun once in a while, its really necessary to take a break from all the hazzel pazzel of life, make plans but go spontaneous sometimes. You don’t have to beat yourself up for every mistake you make, some of this mistakes are actually there to teach us a lesson. So you just learn your lesson and move on but then be careful not to make the same mistake again. Note that some things are out of your control so whenever you feel out of control just grab a coffee and relax but most of all remember “life is beautiful when shared with the right people”.