Many times I wonder why things happen the way
they do, some say its coincidence, others say its fate. Fate they say has been
predestined and cannot be altered, although quite a number of people disagree
with this phenomenon, certain people believe that you are in control of your
life and anything that happens to you happens because of a decision you made
and only because you permitted it, simply quoted “you are the architect of your
own life”. This set of people don’t believe in coincidence and would usually go
an extra mile to prove it. But does it really matter if life has been
predestined or not……..
Truth be told life sometimes throws certain
curves at us come to think of it, its all natural for life to throw curves at
us because life itself isn’t a straight one you know, *p.s;
the earth is spherical in shape* and so we should
therefore expect those curves at times but this challenges are certainly what
builds us as a person, it shapes, moulds, and sometimes rebuilds us, it makes
us stronger and makes life fun. Basically this things add up to become our
success stories.
But even in all this we shouldn’t forget to
have fun once in a while, its really necessary to take a break from all the
hazzel pazzel of life, make plans but go spontaneous sometimes. You don’t have
to beat yourself up for every mistake you make, some of this mistakes are
actually there to teach us a lesson. So you just learn your lesson and move on
but then be careful not to make the same mistake again. Note that some things
are out of your control so whenever you feel out of control just grab a coffee
and relax but most of all remember “life is beautiful when shared with the
right people”.